Cheating asshole.

[pampered5]

I just found that my husband has been cheating with multiple women. Just a few days ago an I M service popped up with a name I didn't recognize and girls started saying all kinds of things. Long story short found a couple secret email accounts, a secret phone and my husband has so far confessed to eleven different affairs during our one year marriage. I feel lost. We spent a ton of time together and we've always seemed to get along so well.. If anything we didn't have enough sex for me and I would sometimes complain about that. My husband would tell me because of his diabetes he didn't have the energy I do etc and I would feel bad for bugging him. I thought we had a really unique relationship, it has been a connection unlike any I've ever had so I just feel so, so confused. He has since continued to communicate with these women while telling me he wants me back. Has anyone been through any of this before?  I hate to jump in to divorce but I don't feel like I have a lot of options. I don't feel it is a behavior that will change. Has anyone ever seen this behavior change? Why would a man do this? So many women, many are one night stands or booty calls. I don't understand at all.

[chatter99]

Know what I would do is go find some random guy and video tape you to having sex and hide the tape were your husband would find it. then he would file for divorce instead of you. and you would also have fun sleeping with a guy get him at his own game. life is short have fun girl!!

[timmer9]

Yeah your better off alone marraige doesn't work anymore. to much varity out there. take him for what he's got and move on.

[vulgar]

mabey there is something wrong with you?, Live it up don't try to fix things go out and find yourself a onenightstand.